Showing posts with label substance addiction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label substance addiction. Show all posts

Thursday, September 10, 2020

Sept. 10, 2020 - Readings in Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation

Thursday, Sept. 10, 2020
Today’s Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Pray without resentment in your heart. — The Little Red Book
Resentment is anger that we don’t want to turn over to our Higher Power. Sometimes, we want to keep our anger. Maybe we want to “get even.” It’s hard to be spiritual and full of anger at the same time. When we hold on to anger, it turns into self-will.
We all get angry from time to time. This is normal. But we now have a program to help us let go of anger. We also know that stored-up anger can drive us back to alcohol and other drugs. Instead of trying to “get even,” let’s work at keeping anger out of our hearts.
Prayer for the Day
I pray without anger in my heart. Higher Power, I give You my anger. Have me work for justice, instead of acting like a judge.
Action for the Day
I’ll list any resentments I now have. I’ll talk about them at my next meeting. This is the best way to turn resentments over to my Higher Power.
Hazelden Foundation

Wednesday, July 8, 2020

July 8, 2020 - Readings in Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation

Wednesday, July 8, 2020
Today’s Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Speak when you’re angry and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret. — Laurence J. Peter
When we used alcohol or other drugs, most of us were hotheads. We thought we were right. If we were proven wrong, we may have made life hell for everyone. People knew enough to stay away from us.
In recovery, things will still go badly at times. We’ll get hurt. And we’ll get angry. But now, our anger no longer controls us. We also turn over our anger to our Higher Power. In our groups, we talk about what makes us angry. Then we leave the anger behind when the meeting is over. We find that being at peace is now more important than getting even.
Prayer for the Day
Higher Power, when I’m angry, help me slow down. Help me remember it’s okay to be angry, but it’s not okay to abuse people.
Action for the Day
I will remember a time when I turned anger into rage and hurt someone. I will also remember a time I was angry in a respectful way.
Hazelden Foundation

Saturday, January 27, 2018

Jan. 27, 2018 - Readings in Recovery: Twenty-Four Hours a Day

Twenty-Four Hours a Day
Saturday, Jan. 27, 2018

AA Thought for the Day
Alcoholics carry an awful load around with them. What a load lying puts on your shoulders! Drinking makes liars out of all of us alcoholics. In order to get the liquor we want, we have to lie all the time. We have to lie about where we've been and what we've been doing. When you are lying, you are only half alive because of the fear of being found out. When you come into AA and get honest with yourself and with other people, that terrible load of lying falls off your shoulders.

Have I got rid of that load of lying?

Meditation for the Day
I believe that in the spiritual world, as in the material world, there is no empty space. As fears and worries and resentments depart out of my life, the things of the spirit come in to take their places. Calm comes after a storm. As soon as I am rid of fears and hates and selfishness, God's love and peace and calm can come in.

Prayer for the Day
I pray that I may rid myself of all fears and resentments, so that peace and serenity may take their place. I pray that I may sweep my life clean of evil, so that good may come in.

Hazelden Foundation

Monday, September 5, 2016

Sept. 5, 2016 - Readings in Recovery: The Eye Opener

The Eye Opener
Monday, Sept. 5, 2016

If you are a person who likes his drink and yet has to forego his pleasure in order to retain some semblance of order in your life, you will naturally be miserable.

For you there is but one remedy. Get busy on the Program, talk it, work it, preach it, think it, pray it, live it - then you will find that you like it.

Hazelden Foundation

Sunday, August 14, 2016

Aug. 14, 2016 - Readings in Recovery: Step by Step

The Serenity Prayer
Step by Step
Sunday, Aug. 14, 2016

"Those of us who have spent much time in the world of spiritual make-believe have eventually seen the childishness of it. This dream world has been replaced by a great sense of purpose, accompanied by a growing consciousness of the power of God in our lives. We have come to believe He would like us to keep our heads in the clouds with Him, but that our feet ought to be firmly planted on earth. That is where our fellow travelers are, and that is where our work must be done. These are the realities for us." - Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd Edition, 1976, Ch 9 ("The Family Afterward"), p 130.

Today, the spiritual component of recovery is little more than faith without works if I fail to utilize it in service to the addict who still suffers, and if I neglect my responsibility to my spiritual development. That responsibility is, in part, strict adherence to my own program while allowing others in recovery their program that works for them, and in actively seeking participation in program and group affairs before being asked. What I have received in the program is not mine alone, and it cannot and will not grow if I keep it to myself. This is the essential expression of spirituality at work  - to share with someone how the program led me to where I am now while helping them to find their way. I may think I have a spiritual connection with my higher power but, if I limit my contentment to myself, my faith is dead without works. And our common journey continues. Step by step. - Chris M., 2016

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

July 27, 2016 - Readings in Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Sunday, February 21, 2016

Feb. 21, 2016 - Readings in Recovery: Step by Step

Step by Step
Sunday, Feb. 21, 2016
Today: "Keep It Sweet and Simple!" In the end, the complexities and sometimes grueling work of the Twelve Steps come down to a cardinal action: if I do not want to deal with the shakes through the day and the oblivion of drunkenness; if I do not want to deal with guilt, remorse, shame and self-degradation; if I do not want the numbing pain of letting down myself and anyone who has stood with me through the worst of my drinking days and the best of my recovery; if I do not want to devote any part of the day and night with my head in a toilet throwing up and with the dry heaves; if I don't want to take bed sheets to the laundromat for an unplanned wash because they got soaked by my own vomit; if I don't want to risk getting nailed for drunk driving and the subsequent court-ordered fines and fees, alcohol classes and triple car insurance rates; if I want to continue to progress in recovery and sobriety; if I want to nurture the re-established relationships that were previously broken and responsibilities that went neglected because of drinking; if I want to keep clear of self-pity, anger, confusion, and anguish; if I want to claim honestly that I am sober today; today, I won't drink. And our common journey continues. Step by step. - Chris M., 2016