Wednesday, Aug. 4, 2021
Today’s Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Solving problems
Problems are made to be solved!
Some of us spend more time reacting to the fact that we have a problem than we do solving the problem. “Why is this happening to me?” … “Isn’t life awful?” … “How come this had to happen?” … “Oh, dear. This is terrible.” … “Why is God (the Universe, an agency, a person, or life) picking on me?”
Problems are inevitable. Some problems can be anticipated. Some are surprises. But the idea that problems occur regularly need never be a surprise.
The good news is that for every problem, there’s a solution. Sometimes the solution is immediate. Sometimes, it takes a while to discover. Sometimes, the solution involves letting go. Sometimes, the problem is ours to solve; sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes, there is something we can clearly do to solve the problem; other times, we need to struggle, flounder, do our part, then trust our Higher Power for help.
Sometimes, the problem is just part of life. Sometimes, the problem is important because we are learning something through the problem and its solution. Sometimes, problems end up working out for good in our life. They get us headed in a direction that is superior to one we may otherwise have taken.
Sometimes, problems just are; sometimes they are a warning sign that we are on the wrong track.
We can learn to accept problems as an inevitable part of life. We can learn to solve problems. We can learn to trust our ability to solve problems. We can learn to identify which problems are trying to lead us in a new direction, and which simply ask for solving.
We can learn to focus on the solution rather than on the problem, and maintain a positive attitude toward life and the inevitable flow of problems and solutions.
Today, I will learn to trust solutions, rather than be victimized by problems.
Hazelden Foundation
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