Sunday, Sept. 4, 2022
Today’s Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Do not use a hatchet to remove a fly from your friend’s forehead. —Chinese proverb
Some of us are prone to criticizing others’ behavior even when they don’t ask for our opinions. Although sharing observations is sometimes good, we must explore our motives. Are we honestly trying to help? Or are we subtly putting others down in order to boost our self-esteem?
In God’s world we are equal, absolutely. We’re all on separate though very related journeys, and we have an opportunity to thoughtfully help each other, every moment. In this respect, gentle feedback may help someone get back on track, but hoisting ourselves up at another’s expense doesn’t help him or her, and it harms us greatly.
Our spiritual well-being suffers when we criticize others needlessly. The only sure way of helping friends live fulfilling lives is to love them and gently support them in their struggles. Their happiness will benefit the rest of us, too.
I will remember that my words can help or hinder. I will benefit from using soft words today.
Hazelden Foundation
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